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  • Writer's pictureStefan Neff

Welcome to Day 5 of our DRIVE FOR CHANGE SOBER OCTOBER Challenge!

Congratulations on making it to our final day together – you rock!

In addition to today’s lesson, don’t forget I’ll also be hosting a LIVE Masterclass and Q&A session at 1 pm Pacific which will help make it easier for you to continue driving for change in your life for months to come!

So let’s jump into today’s lesson:

Once you’ve watched the video, your challenge for today is to do something different!

Take a bold step into unknown territory. It doesn’t have to be a big step. But it DOES have to be something that you have never done before – or something that you haven’t done in years.

Shake things up! Try something new! You will be amazed at how much energy and momentum you create when you challenge yourself to step outside of your comfort zone and have a new experience.

One thing you can do today is join me for the “Put the Pedal to the Metal” bonus session I’m hosting at 1 pm - 2 pm Pacific on ZOOM:

Stefan Neff is inviting you to a LIVE Q&A Zoom meeting.

Topic: "Put the Pedal to the Metal" LIVE Q&A

Time: Oct 22, 2022 01:00 PM Vancouver

Join Zoom Meeting Below:

Meeting ID: 885 9925 3159

This will be a live training and Q&A session on Zoom and is designed to help you commit to moving forward in your drive for change this fall. For about an hour, I’ll answer as many of your questions as I'm able to so I can help you continue moving forward toward living your best life in the months to come.

I can’t wait to connect and inspire you during this live, interactive session!

See you at 11 am, Stefan!

To your boundless success,

Sincerely Grateful

Stefan Neff

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Welcome to Day 4 of our DRIVE FOR CHANGE SOBER OCTOBER Challenge!

We have just 2 days left in our challenge, so let’s make the most of them.

And don't forget our "Pedal to the Metal” Training and Q&A call (Saturday, October 22nd, from 1 pm-2 pm PT) where I'll be answering your questions live!

Before we get to today’s lesson, I was wondering: How are you feeling now that you have spent 3 days taking bold action toward creating change in your life?

I hope you have been having a great week so far and are feeling the energy and momentum growing in your life as a result of the action you have been taking to drive for change these past few days!

Today’s focus is on how to navigate the detours.

Now that you have fully embarked on your journey and are aware of the milestones you want to reach along the way, it’s time to talk about what to do when you reach an inevitable roadblock.

Because no road to success is obstacle free! You will run into setbacks, and that’s okay. It’s better to know they are coming and prepare for them than to pretend they don’t exist or assume that the first little bump in the road is a sign you were destined to fail.

So how do you prepare yourself to successfully navigate roadblocks in your journey to achieve your goals in life?

Let’s get into it!

Here’s today’s video lesson:

Once you have watched the video, your challenge for today is to:

  1. Identify ONE area of your life where you are feeling blocked. This could also be an area of your life where you know you are at risk of running into an obstacle. For example, Feeling stuck with an addiction or one of your relationships, your one action could be to send out an email to that person and set up a zoom chat. or if you feel urges and cravings seek out a mentor about helping with your addiction.

  2. Identify ONE action you will take to build your capacity in that area. What is ONE action you can take today to overcome that block or build your strength and confidence in that area? For example, Maybe one action could be to join a recovery support group or search youtube on how to deal with urges and cravings. Or if you feel stuck in your carrier your one action could be to buy a book to expand your knowledge in key areas where your skills could be improved.

  3. Commit to taking that action before you go to bed! Also, be sure to share that action with the Drive for Change Facebook group to be entered to win more great prizes! We are here to cheer you on and remind you that you can achieve any goal you can imagine. (And if you’re feeling inspired, also be sure to share your work on your public Facebook channels using the hashtag #DriveforChangewithstefan – so you can encourage others to “do something different” as well!)

Have fun with it, everyone!

To your boundless success,

Sincerely Grateful

Stefan Neff

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  • Writer's pictureStefan Neff

Here we are at Day 3 of our 5-Day DRIVE FOR CHANGE SOBER OCTOBER Challenge!

Today’s lesson is one of the most powerful – and I can’t wait to share it with you.

But first – how has your week been so far? Drop by the Facebook group and let us know how you’re doing after completing yesterday’s challenge of taking bold action toward creating transformative change in your life.

Today’s lesson is designed to help you map out your route and successfully navigate your journey – even when the road ahead isn’t entirely clear.

Once you have watched the video, your challenge for today is to:

1. Identify 3-5 key milestones for your journey

Let’s say your end destination is the change you want to create in your life before the end of the year. What are the key milestones that you KNOW you’ll need to hit on that journey? For example, if Your goal is to lose 20lbs by December 31st, your key milestone might be to lose 5lbs then get it up to 10lbs then 15lbs along the way.. Or your goal is quitting drinking by the end of the year. Go one day then two then a week until you have released drinking altogether your milestones could be: maybe your key milestone is to, find someone who can mentor you, or a sober coach, who is also successful in living in sobriety. Or attend a weekly meeting in person or online with like-minded people who are in a similar situation, to release alcohol from their lives.

2. Or identify what triggers you to drink, like after work or when you are bored with nothing to do, or maybe your reward system to give yourself permission to drink after a long hard day at work. The route between each milestone on your journey may not be clear yet but the milestones are all things you KNOW you will have to reach at different parts of your journey if you want to arrive at your end destination.

3. Add those milestones to your calendar

Estimate how long it will take you to reach each of those milestones and then add them to your schedule and/or calendar. As you proceed toward them, you may discover that you will need more or less time to achieve those milestones. Adjust the date accordingly but do not remove them from your schedule.

4. Take ONE bold action TODAY toward that first milestone

Identify a task that you will complete before the end of the day that will propel you toward achieving that first milestone – and then commit to taking that action before you go to bed tonight.

5. Share your bold action in our Facebook Group

I’d love to see what kind of bold action you have committed to taking! Plus, there is huge power in declaring things publicly and holding yourself accountable to others. And if you post by midnight tonight you’ll be entered to win one of our many daily prizes!

Remember, you don’t have to know the twists and turns of every road to get started on your journey or reach your final destination! You just need to keep moving forward to that next big milestone. And as you continue to move forward, the next section of your journey will present itself to you.

I can’t wait to see where it takes you!

To your boundless potential for success,

Sincerely Grateful

Stefan Neff

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